Maybe you’ve recognised your privilege as a white person, non-white person, educated person, wealthy person, powerful person etc. But don’t just observe it, act on it. Educate yourself on the issues others face, stand against rape culture and toxic masculinity. Don’t allow the vicious cycles of abuse to occur around you, no matter how subtle. Don’t expect a gold star for being a decent human being, just be.

In a modern society where hardworking women are time poor and rely on dating apps to meet people, sexual success is often obscured by social barriers. A feminist identity should encompass the values you hold close, and shouldn’t be pitted against the next person’s.

The best way to explore your nerve clustering is to masturbate. Masturbation is fucking dope. Get into it. The other way is to practice with a partner. Ask them to mix it up a little through different oral sex techniques, or alternative sex positions. If you need guidance on these topics email me and I’ll consider writing a blog on it, but generally just engage in these activities without a goal in mind. See it as an opportunity to learn about your body.

Female sexual pleasure has stumped researchers for most of human existence. Those researchers were mostly men, who quickly became defeated of the ‘complex’ and ‘mysterious’ nature of female sexual anatomy. Throughout the history of research on women’s sexuality, people have hit road blocks. This is still happening today.